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Girl Hustling For Money W/ Broken Down Car Story

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  • Started 1 year ago by WaterMayWalk
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  1. A few months ago in Ballard, a young girl came up to my boyfriend and I with this story about how she and her friends were trying to get money cause their car broke down. She started crying and such and really begging pitifully but we didn't have money and she moved on her way.
    Well, two days ago in Ballard the same girl came up to my mother and me and told us the same story! Crying and all. I also work in the neighborhood and saw her hustling two older women later in the day outside my shop.
    It's so sad because she's pretty young, I would say early 20's. She must be needing drug money pretty bad.

    So my question is... how do I go about reporting something like this? She's pretty convincing so I'm sure she's gotten a lot of people to feel sorry for her and give her money. I don't think it's fair that she be allowed to just keep it up. I don't want to confront her because she'll just move on to another neighborhood and do the same thing. I also don't want to call the cops because either they won't care or they will start harassing the other neighborhood homeless who are really actually very respectful and keep mostly to themselves. What should I do?

    Posted 1 year ago #
  2. teigyr

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    That's tough and all goes back to the actual people who NEED our help don't often ask for it. She's a con artist. You might want to talk to the police non-emergency number and see what they suggest.

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  3. phoo

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    Seattle seems to have more of these folks than Portland does. It's also why I never give money. If something is genuinely wrong and I am in a place to help fix it, then I'll see about a bus ticket, lunch, pay for hostel accomodations, etc.

    Not long after I moved to Fremont, I also got a good tough luck story. Boyfriend abandoned her, trying to get a night in a hostel and trying to raise bus money back to where she's from, near rape story from being outside at night, complete with fear and tears. Once I started talking about paying for the bus ticket or the hostel myself, she was not interested and walked right off. I also noticed that the spangers up on capitol hill were better dressed than I was.

    I second teigyr's suggestion and am sorry I don't have a better one.

    Posted 1 year ago #
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    About a month ago, I was approached on Ballard Ave by a young woman who said her car had broken down and she was trying to get to Vancouver. I declined the opportunity. Frankly, these days it's pretty easy to get money, even after bank hours and even at a distance. If she had ANY family or friends who were interested, she could probably get the required funds from them.

    Posted 1 year ago #
  5. Alysse

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    This also happened to me some times while waiting for the bus home from the U-District. It was the same girl each time, but some times accompanied with a young boy may be 3 years old. She had a tattoo on her neck below the ear with a small heart. Skinny white girl with black dyed hair. And I thought she is too young to have that old of a child.

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  6. phoo

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    Oh, it's never too young. I knew a girl who had 4 kids - 1,2,3 and 4. She was 19. The shame of it was that she was in an abusive relationship and did not enjoy conceiving any of them.

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  7. Upside Down

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    ˙ɐʎ ɹoɟ ʎʇıɔ ǝɥʇ s,ʇɐɥʇ ˙ǝɔɐɟ ɹnoʎ uı ʇı sǝʌoɥs ʇsnɾ puɐ ƃuıɥʇǝɯos ɹo ʞןɐʇ ʇ,uɐɔ ǝɥ ǝʞıן sʇɔɐ ˙ǝɹɐɟ snq ɹoɟ ƃuıʞsɐ ɹǝdɐd ʞooqǝʇou uo uƃıs ɐ sǝıɹɹɐɔ oɥʍ suoısɐɔɔo ǝןdıʇןnɯ uo uʍoʇuʍop ʎnƃ ɐ oʇuı unɹ osןɐ ǝʌ,ı

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  8. oldguybc

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    It's all that coffee! Remember walking into a 7-11 a few years ago and the lady behind the counter screamed "CAN I HELP YOU?" so loud I nearly dropped my wallet!
    On the way out I encountered a young lady with a slurpee she had just bought and she was shaking and crying while she asked me for any loose change...
    You had to be there to appreciate it...
    ;))

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  9. Alferd Packer

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    ogbc, I always used to be able to tell when my dad's hearing aid batteries died, he thought if he couldn't hear, he should talk louder because it was obvious people weren't hearing him.

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  10. ginamarie

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    Ugh, I totally fell for this girls story. Yesterday. I only gave her a buck but 2 minutes later someone came by and told me she's been there for weeks... I was pissed. She told me her car broke down then someone stole her wallet out of the car. It sucks cause someone might actually need some genuine help one day, but I'm tainted by the bulshit I'm fed by all the losers out there.

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  11. iPlod

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    +1 ginamarie.

    But give her some more money anyways, because she needs to make my bail.

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  12. MidWest

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    Upside Down: what does the city of Seattle have to do with this hustler's behavior?

    Seen this BS everywhere; doesn't seem to be limited to Seattle at all. I remember kids in a midwest town begging for money who were dressed better than most of my peers, and it turned out they were mostly middle class kids looking for a handout from gullible folks.

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  13. BuffaloHawk

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    I remember when I first moved out here in 1997 and saw a woman asking for change in front of a QFC with her homeless looking ids. After we went shopping at the store saw her get in a brand new car with the temporary plate paper on the back window. I haven't donated to anyone since.

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  14. Mondoman

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    They tend to gravitate to areas where they're more successful.

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  15. Cate

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    If you are worried about local hungry children give to the Ballard Food Bank or Food Lifeline. Because some people are hustlers (this same girl hit me up when I was having dinner with my son last week) it is easy to use it as a reason to not be charitable or to think that everyone who says they are hungry or unable to get home are hustlers - But sadly there are hungry children (and elderly/disabled adults) who have few options open to them

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  16. Mondoman

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    Good reminder!

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    faura4

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    There was a similar story in the Magnolia forum a week ago
    http://www.magnoliavoice.com/forum/topic.php?id=623

    Does the description sound like her?

    Posted 1 year ago #
  18. racerX

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    Upside Down: what does the city of Seattle have to do with this hustler's behavior?

    MidWest, you actually read those posts?

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  19. winebaby

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    Saturday night, this girl hit me up for money as well - no longer than an hour after I had read this posting... as we walked away i heard her hit up another group of people, same sob story...

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  20. Sunset Hill David

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    I don't read the Upside Down posts myself. Too difficult. The joke has gotten tired.

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  21. Rudy

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    I can't read the upside down posts...I just see a series of blocks and symbols. Sounds like it's better that way.

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  22. ynh98107

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    Stop given people money on the streets! This is why they stay in Ballard. Donate to reputable causes instead.

    The broken down car story is so cliché, it laughable.

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  23. phoo

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    ginamarie: this is why if I fall for someone's story I still don't give them cash. I offer to help them by buying the item for them. If they just want the cash they'll cry that you won't help them and walk away.

    Although it may not be unique to Seattle, I really have seen far more of these cases up here. In Portland there was a family spanging and I offered to take them to McDonald's. They actually took me up on it and more interestingly, they spent my money carefully (I told them to order whatever they wanted). They bought nothing extravagant. Just enough to feed them and their 2 year old. Not all homeless folk are con artists. Yeah, they may have been hungry because mommy or daddy was a drug addict (hard to say), but being hungry isn't going to make a drug addict clean up and they need to eat too.

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  24. teigyr

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    "Stop given people money on the streets! This is why they stay in Ballard. Donate to reputable causes instead."

    This. You ever see a shift change at a freeway exit? I've seen people leave in a cab. It's a business and no matter how creative or heart-wrenching the "story" is, odds are it is a story. Donate to reputable causes, offer food or a bus ticket (as mentioned above) or anything other than money. If the need is legit, they will accept what you offer. If not, they will continue searching for cash.

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  25. allisonw

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    My BF and I were confronted by a guy behind the Wendy's in Salt Lake City last week. He was wearing a blue uniform with a nametag.Said he worked at the Wendy's. Car was broken down, wasn't getting paid for two weeks, lived across town, had no way to commute back and forth to work. Unfortunate set of circumstances, but we declined to give him any money.

    After dinner we were walking back to the hotel and noticed the Wendy's employees had red uniforms.

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  26. charliecooper

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    She was begging for money at the gas station @ 15th and Market an hour ago. She had a female companion with her.

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  27. PaytonKemp-AlleyOop

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    Yesterday evening, infront of India Bistro a girl came up to my GF and I and said her car was broken down and she needed to get to Bellingham. She got a bit pissed when we said we had no money to offer, her and another girl started heading East.

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  28. The girl that I saw was in her early to mid-20's, caucasian, light brown hair, kind of husky voice.

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  29. great idea

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    "...kind of husky voice."

    I love the word 'husky' to describe a deep woman's voice or an overweight boy.

    suddenly the UW mascot makes more sense.

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  30. great idea

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    "Yesterday evening, infront of India Bistro a girl came up to my GF and I and said her car was broken down and she needed to get to Bellingham. She got a bit pissed when we said we had no money to offer, her and another girl started heading East. "

    did you tell her Bellingham was North?

    Posted 1 year ago #

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