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how do other adult women 'play?'

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  1. Kyle

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    Ok, so I'm just realizing that there is really no play in my life, and hasn't been for years. When the weather's decent I love bike riding, walking, being out doors, exploring new areas. But as for fun physical play, other than faux-wrestling with hubby on occasion, I got....nuthin'. It's suddenly striking me how out of balance and unhappy this feels.

    What do you other fair to middling aged gals (I'm 52) do for fun when your body says keep away from high-impact sports? Running for frisbees is great when my foot problem isn't acting up. I tried the Zumba thing and it's fun, but I torqued my foot doing it so am wary to go back. This sounds fun - a friend wants to go trampoline bouncing (rebounding?) but I can't pin her down on a day yet. Any grown-up play circles out there?

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  2. Cate

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    I can hardly wait to see where this thread goes.

    I do think that the deep water aerobic classes are fun. Ballard Pool has them.

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  3. Ernie

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    On second thought....never mind.

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  4. pennygirl

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    Judging by your other threads on this forum, you're lonely and just want to meet people. Maybe you should say that rather than beating around the bush constantly. It might work.

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  5. Kyle

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    Penny, I am not sure what you're on about. I meet plenty of people. I'm talking about PLAY.

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  6. pennygirl

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    Sorry. I got the wrong end of the stick.

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  7. Kyle

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    You got the wrong end of something! Looking for helpful answers, not snark.

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  8. dsomers

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    Kyle,

    Pardon my popping in on this. I just wanted to offer a few ideas.

    When my wife was going a bit stir crazy after my surgery a few years ago we went over to an acrobatic school in Georgetown (SANCA at seattlesanca.org). On the first friday of every night they have what they call an Open Trapeze. They use it as a fund raiser. For $5 they put you in a safety harness and take you up the ladder to the platform and show you how to do basic swings on the trapeze. When you are done you simply drop down into the massive net below you. I have never seen my wife so thoroughly jazzed. She ran through it 4 times that night and wants to do it again when she is in town around the 1st of the month. I would go with some good buds and have a great time. It doesn't involve your feet. And average strength in your arms and hands is fine. The school itself might be attractive to you as well. A lot of women get involved at all levels. The ones I know have a wonderful time and have developed great friendships there. Its a neat operation.

    Another thing I watch women doing in my "neighborhood" is sailing. They join up as crew in some of the sailboat races. Many boats don't demand experience at all and will teach you. They are out to have fun. And you learn about sailing in the process. Many get seriously addicted. I see women of all ages doing this. 52 would be a fine age. There is a great sense of team work and comradery, a fun competition, adrenalin from the race, and fun with other boat crews after the races and practices.

    Another option for a fun and active activity would be sea kayaking. You can do it at all kinds of skill levels.

    Hope this helps a bit! Pardon a guy butting in!

    Dave

    Posted 1 year ago #
  9. Pokerguy

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    www.ashleymadison.com

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  10. Kyle

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    Thanks Dave! No problem, looking for all interesting thoughts. Sailing is a blast - I crewed on occasion when I was a member of the Women's Sailing Club some years ago; funny because most of the boats were owned by guys looking to hang with women. It became hard to get on a sail because there were more members than boats.... unless you wanted to sub in the rain or cold. (Nope.)

    i LOVE the trapeze info! That is exactly what I was looking for. It reminds me that there are these 'fringe' activities that are not mainstream sports and very fun. A colleague went to do the sky-diving chamber at southcenter but said it's over in less than a minute, for not cheap. But that's another fringe fun activity. Wish I had the upper body strength for parasailing or parasurfing, whatever those guys do off Shilshole. That looks like serious grin-making material.

    Cate, water aerobics idea sounds good too, though I am chlorine sensitive so have to bag that idea...

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    The only play groups that I know of, if you want to call it that, are usually related to interest. I'm not too sure what you're looking for. New things? Developing existing skills? The closest I've come to play as in what children do is laser tag and miniature golf. I saw the thing on the trampoline place, why not just go? I believe they have teams and various sports type activities that are probably drop-in.

    My idea of play is to challenge myself. It might be something mentally difficult like parasailing (am scared of heights) or it might be something that makes me slightly uncomfortable just because it's something I've never done before.

    Oddly enough we tend to have the most fun just doing stupid things like watching old game shows or making our own song lyrics to songs that lend themselves to it. The best ever is Bon Jovi "You Give Love a Bad Name". You can put in words that fit for any situation. It's like Bon Jovi haiku.

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  12. Kyle

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    Teigyr, you just reminded me that singing is pure fun. Fortunately that happens a lot around here... no wonder people have such a good time with karaoke. It releases endorphins too.

    I think new things are what I'm looking for. Discovery combined with outdoor exploration are highest on my play/thrill list, but not always easy to get on a budget in a region you've been exploring for 25 years. Might be time to go back to old places that have probably changed by now. Although, you know the absolute most fun I had recently was 3 of us playing in and body surfing huge waves at the beach in Mexico. Wish we all had stayed in the water longer.

    You also just reminded me about paintball (laser tag). That was... well, it hurt until I was out of the game. :-)

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  13. Cate

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    My son loves the classes at SANCA. All kinds of circus skills besides trapeze. They have juggling and that is something you can actually play-at at home or the beach without the fancy equipment.

    Great art classes at Pratt Fine Arts Academy and many of them are for beginners. (Want to take a glassblowing class with me? It is a workout.)

    The Wooden Boat museum has great small boat sailing classes (and boatbuilding classes).

    The restaurant Agua Verde down on Boat Street rents out kayaks. And so does the Waterfront Center at the U.W (plus canoes).

    And there must be places to go Horseback riding around here. Anyone know where?

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  14. Rockclimbing. Bowling. Skating

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  15. Kyle

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    Cate, I am a Pratt fanatic! Took a couple of fused glass classes, and 3 printmaking classes. I miss it terribly and will probably sign up for something next quarter. Have you taken other classes there already?

    I was just online looking at Sky High Sports in Bellevue - the trampoline place. Worth a trip over - $11 an hour and they also have aerobics classes sometimes. I'm GOING!

    Agua Verde has the advantage of good eats AND kayak rental. I've rented kayaks at the other place across lake Union, on the west side... forget what it's called. It's so cool to poke around the houseboats! For warmer weather....

    Horseback riding - I don't know of the commercial places where you could do it, just know individuals who own. You are probably talking about trail rides?

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  16. cdpenne

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    Chuckle chuckle. Wrong end of the stick!

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  17. Cate

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    Kyle,
    I pretty much stick to hot glass/glass blowing but have been thinking of doing some of the warm glass classes. Who are the good fusing instructors at Pratt? I'm also thinking of doing a cold work class to so I can polish etc. my own glass (The best piece I ever did I gave to the instructor to polish the bottom and he dropped it! Rather be mad at myself then someone else.)

    I have a sister-in-law who rents horses and goes trail-riding but I don't know where she goes, I will have to ask her.

    If you like deep water aerobics, the pool at Olympic Athletic Club is salttwater and might work for you.

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  18. Kyle

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    Cate, the warm/fused glass instructor I had is no longer teaching there - her name was Robyn. She was a good teacher, but had some personal issues that I think got in the way.

    I wish there was a fabric arts and a plastic arts facility at Pratt. They're having budget issues like all non-profits... it amazes me that they can still be in business but I think this is just because the city helps by maintaining the buildings and grounds.

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  19. VeganBiker

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    Kyle - a friend mentioned this, if you are a dancer:

    Ballroom Dance Class
    Ballard Elks, 6411 Seaview NW, Seattle, WA. Cost: $5, Time: 6–7PM. Betty McLain, instructor, drop–ins welcome. Live band 7–10PM. For more information, please call Betty at: (206) 284–7442.

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  20. BuffaloHawk

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    VB

    That just made me think of the square dancing @ Tractor Tavern http://www.tractortavern.com/

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  21. Thomas C.

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    If you are a dancer:

    Deja Vu Showgirls
    1510 1st Avenue, Seattle, WA 98101
    (206) 342-9160 ‎
    dejavushowgirls-seattle.com

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  22. VeganBiker

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    BH - lots of dancing in ye olde Ballard! :)

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  23. VeganBiker

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    Thomas C. - you don't go dancing there, do you?

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  24. BuffaloHawk

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    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=UypeE3zTwBs

    VB - Good Times haHa

    Play it loud

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  25. gracie

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    I was wanting to do water aerobics and talking with friend who does it. Told him I just don't want to have anyone see me in a bathing suit. His reply "well don't wear one." Asked him if he meant no suit at all and if so, he would want to burn his eyes out after seeing me nude.
    But truthfully I don't want anyone to see me in a suit yet and working real hard to get over that stupid thought.

    Buffalo - is it wrong that I like The Funk!

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    you don't need to take a dance 'class' to play.

    you just need to clear some space out. and turn up the volume.

    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=EsSum88aO04

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  27. BuffaloHawk

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    gracie - When my little one is with her mother they live at her grandparents place and the grandparents or Mormon (I won't get started) so she can't wear nail polish. When she comes to my place I paint her nails and we crank that song in the background. She even named one of the leopard gecko's Funky. We are looking forward to seeing Kool & the Gang open for Van Halen.

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    With deep water aerobics, you are mostly submerged. Plus most of the people in the classes would not make good swimsuit models. I totally dig deepwater aerobics.

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    Gracie,

    Sometimes when you are feeling self conscious it is hard to believe, but no one will really care if they see you in a bathing suit. They are all there to have fun and exercise, and odds are everyone is feeling self conscious to some degree as well. And if someone actually did care....well....heck with em! You are getting good excersize, having fun and meeting folks.

    Don't let a bathing suit stop you!!!! The longer you wait the harder it gets.

    And I know saying this as a guy probably reduces the legitamacy of my comment. But I think most of the gals on the forum would agree. Just go do it!!!

    Dave...the clueless one! <grin>

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  30. Cate

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    Gracie - Some people will wear board shorts or water shorts in the pool with a tankini top that is fairly covered or a "rash guard" shirt that is designed to be worn in the water. That is what I do at the beach because I'm a redhead that burns. Landsend.com has a nice selection of woman's swimwear including some options like board shorts that look reasonably okay and provide good coverage.

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    Dave, Allison - point taken. And Cate, great idea. I could definitely handle a tankini and board shorts.
    Buffalo - I dated a Mormon so know what you are talking about. I love the Funk and so jealous you are seeing Kool & the Gang. Didn't know they were opening for Van Halen. Problem when I play the funk while doing housework - I end up dancing and don't do any housework - and I crank the music up louder and louder and, and and....

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    Maybe Ballard could start playing dodgeball like they do on Capitol Hill.

    http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/html/othersports/2008106538_dodgeball12.html

    It sounds like fun for all ages. Are there any tennis courts here?

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  33. VeganBiker

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    be - Ballard High school has one but I am not sure non-students can use it. Green lake has some public courts and as far as I know that is it, anyone else know of a public tennis court in Ballard? Dodge ball looks like fun :)

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  34. cdpenne

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    They play dodgeball or kickball or some such thing at the BCC. I know that it's men and women on the teams. I usually see them on Sunday afternoons and it's in the gym.

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  35. Cate

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    dodgeball... That takes me back to horrible memories of elementary school gyms, broken glasses and tears. Hate dodgeball.

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  36. cdpenne

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    Agreed, Cate. I don't think you could pay me enough to play dodgeball.

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  37. oldguybc

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    Cate, used to play dodgeball at the old Adams gym, a portable located right about where the new Adams school is now, called it soak'em, used funny little lightweight volleyballs can remember only a few girls played...

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  38. JoeInBallard

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    "If you can dodge a wrench, you can dodge a ball"

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  39. iPlod

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    YEAH!!

    LET'S PLAY DODGEWRENCH!

    Bring Ballard back to it's roots.

    THANKS FOR THE IDEA, JOE!

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    Kyle,

    There are tons of dance opportunities in Ballard and nearby. I do all sorts of dance, but one of the ones I've found is best for "play" is contra dance. If you can walk you can do it, and it's a very warm, welcoming crowd that's really enthusiastic about beginners of all ages. It's always fun to see everyone from teens to people in their 70s on the dance floor. Plus, the music is typically really high-energy. It's one of those types of dances where you'll wind up grinning the whole time--everyone is really playful. And the best part--you don't need a partner. You just show up. It's worth mentioning that there are plenty of married folks who attend on their own, since their spouses aren't into dancing or can't make it. The closest place is Fridays at Phinney Ridge Community Center. Here's a link: www.seattledance.org/contra/emeraldcity

    That's just one thought. There are all kinds of other social dance opportunities, including classes for beginners, in and around Ballard, too, but not knowing whether you have experience, it's hard to recommend anything other than contra.

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  41. dsomers

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    Kyle,

    Flicka's suggestion is a fun one. I used to contra dance back in college and a number of years afterwards. That was back when we had to have a lookout posted in case a pteradactyl swooped down and grabbed a few dancers by their furs and made off with them.

    It was a hoot. If you have ever done a Virginia Reel you have done a contra dance. We used to do those in grade school gym class sometimes back in New England. I think you are about my age so you may have experienced that too. (oops...shouldnt have mentioned pteradactyls and then compared your age to mine should I...sigh.)

    If you have never done one....think square dance, but done in pairs of lines, and much less formal than a square dance, and usually with an older style type of music. Lots of jigs and reels and hornpipes and waltzes and whatnot. Fun stuff. And usually far more accepting of newbies than a square dance, where you are often asked to take lessons before you join a "real dance." I have never been to a contra dance where they didnt walk everyone through the dance 1st, and then if you get lost people will pick you up and take you through it with lots of laughter involved. These are laid back and fun and also pretty high energy. And you arent expected to wear country outfits either!!! Tshirts and a pair of jeans are dandy!

    The dances we went to in college had folks of all ages. Women generally wore slacks or gingham dresses and guys wore jeans or decent slacks. It was winter most of the time, and in Maine so it was cold and snowy out. The halls where the dances were held were usually old grange halls that resembled wooden grade school gymnasiums/auditoriums with a basketball hoop at each end and an elevated stage at one end? They were heated by wood furnaces in the basements that were never fired up till the dance started so the buildings were colder than witches..... "fingernails." Till things warmed up the gals all kept their coats on. They would wear long underwear under their dresses, and work boots and high wool socks. Quite the stylin combo! The guys, like most guys everywhere, had no brains and would wear low quarter dress shoes. 30 below and snowing and we wore low quarter dress shoes. Yeah boy! No brains. Anyway....there is a move in a contra dance called a balance and swing where a couple comes together, does 2 stomping kicks, and then links arms and goes into a fast swing. The guys, wearing low quarters but having a fair amount of weight behind it, would make a pretty big boom with each stomp on the wooden floors. The gals though....with those heavy "sh*t kickers" on would shake the rafters! No comparison!!

    And no....despite what Iplod may tell us...contra dancing played no identifiable role in Reagan's imbraglio, the Iran Contra Affair. Nor did it involve marital infidelity on the part of Iranian Square dancers! <grin>

    If you enjoy that style of music it can be a kick! Great idea Flicka!!

    Dave

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  42. Kyle

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    Thanks for the info Flicka, and the follow up comment Dave. I think contra's about the only one I could handle; no other dance experience except younger days in a 'disco' when I looked like Elaine from Seinfeld. ;-)

    I do recall one square dance in my life in which the caller went:

    Swing your partner round and round
    Kick 'er in the butt and throw her on the ground!

    Oh wait, that was Bugs Bunny and Elmer Fudd.....

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    dsomers--The contra dance scene and music have changed a lot in the past decade or so. These days while you can still find the bands that play southern music (think banjos) and the bands that do mostly Irish-sounding music, most of the bands that play the Seattle dances do a lot of experimental music with percussion and sounds borrowed from jazz or rock, with a whole bunch of instruments you wouldn't expect from a contra band--the sound is intense and intensely fun. At dances you still see the aging flower children types, but also tons of teens and young adults there with young children. It's a really eclectic mix. Here's a link to a recent contra dance so you can get a sense of what it's like: http://vimeo.com/38195488

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    I second and or third the contra dance thing. It's great fun and we have attended, kids in tow, the Phinney event a few times. I would just add this - dress lightly! It get feasome hot after all that bouncing, jumping, strutting, promenading what ever else the caller mentioned and I can't remember. Leave your ego at the door and don't worry none about having two left feet.

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    Flicka!

    Oh.....I wish it were only a decade or so ago. Sigh! <grin>

    I will have to check them out. The music sounds intriguing!

    Our contra bands in Maine were into the more irish sounding tunes than southern. But many of the southern tunes are based on the irish melodies and took them a step further. Our bands typically had a rhythm piano, fiddle, guitar, hammered dulcimer, and probably a fiddle.

    Whatever the music though Kyle, Flicka's description of the dances themselves sounds much like the ones I used to go to in Maine. And they were a hoot! Well worth checking out.

    D

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  46. oldguybc

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    Pennygirl can teach you the Lancashire Step...

    the Welsh version

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  47. KatieK

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    Cate & Kyle,

    I took a fused glass ("Kilnforming") class from Marja ("Maudia") at Pratt - she was great great great.

    Who do you take glassblowing classes from?

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    KatieK - thank you for the tip on Marja. My favorite glassblowing instructor is Jeanne who often teaches at Pratt as well as around town. She can be demanding though- in an improve your skills kind of way which is good. For a more relaxed glass-blowing experience I like all the guys at Art by Fire (used to be in Ballard and now are in Issaquah). Art by Fire, even though owned by a woman, is kind of a "boys shop" though and you have to get past that with them. I'm never going to be a good glass blower, don't have the natural talent but love being in a hotshop. For someone like me Art by Fire is really nice. Pratt has a lot of students who hope to blow glass professionally and are in a different league then me - they are great on teaching technique.

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  49. Kyle

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    The nice thing about Pratt, though, is that despite the aspirations of the budding professionals, there are lots of folks who just want to learn process and have the experience. I have all these prints from 3 quarters of printmaking that sit in a box, because I don't care about the display so much as the wondrous kinesthetics of doing the process and seeing the outcome just after.... then, on to the next. It's about discovery and learning for me. There's a lot of 'amateur' and so-so looking results at Pratt in all its available mediums to encourage any beginner. I used to think you had to be a serious or good artist to take classes there, and it kept me away for 20 years. Also it seems expensive up front (but it's really not when you break it down). I took my first 2 8-week classes there via tuition assistance, which is a lot easier to get than one might imagine! And now I willingly pay full price because it's that fun and therapuetic.

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    Oh I completely agree with you Kyle. But at Pratt I take the beginning classes over again rather than go into their advanced classes with the "pros." They let me work on new skills when I repeat the beginning classes but I don't have the pressure of the hotshot kids that make up the advanced glassblowing students.

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  51. Kyle

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    I just want ya'll to know that I went to Sky High Sports and trampolined for an hour, and it was new and different fun! The younger you are the more fun it will be - an hour was too long for my middle aged bones, apparently, for just after departing my legs and hips began to feel like silly putty. Today, don't ask! Ibuprofen time. Also, word of advice - do NOT throw yourself on the mat without expecting some whiplash. Also, do NOT throw yourself into the pit of foam blocks and expect to crawl out in less than 10 minutes. Sheesh!

    Definitely worth a try, and get your friend to bring a camera! We got some cool shots.

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  52. dsomers

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    Good for you Kyle!!!

    D

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